"The Heart longs for what it longs for. That longing is a deep deep ache...a deep well. You can't help that. You simply have to recognize that some losses remain. And that is good. It does not mean you are unhealed! Your Heart actually wants to feel that hurt. Love was there, so the longing remains. Think how cold you would feel if those tears suddenly stopped falling and then could never fall again... What a loss that would be."

--Pahka Dave